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Just a few things first of all if you betray my trust we are no longer friends,

Second of all I’m not stupid or blind so if you try to pull the wool over my eyes or lie to me chances are I’ll already know the truth so there is no use trying to deceive me,

Third I won’t beg you to stay in my life you either want to be there or not I have no time for part time people in my life.

Fourth, I value, trust honesty, loyalty and friendship I befriend very few so if you are a close friend don’t take my trust for granted.

Fifth, I know my value and my worth your approval isn’t required.

Sixth, You either like me or not there in no in between and if you befriend me just to betray me later do me a favor and don’t talk to me in the first place. I will find out your true intent and you will lose my friendship.

Seventh, One lie is all it takes for me to walk out of your life there is no second chances. I’m tired of back stabbers and fake friends this is why I prefer my pets over people and why the dead do not scare me the living do. 

Tired of fake people and back stabbers. Sometimes I wish I was a hermit. People scare me. I truly believe friendship means nothing to some people. Nothing!

Just some advice to you about kids Please wait to have them

Just thinking about things kids have to go through in their life especially

if their parents, drink, smoke or do drugs. I can only imagine their feelings of abandonment and utter horrible conditions.

I only wish I could hold and comfort all those kids. I know from experience 

because my dad was an alcoholic I can understand what they go through every day. Even in my own life and

what I have been through I thank goodness for my faith because without

it I would be lost. I wish all kids could find out and know that even though

they feel no one cares God does and if only for a brief second I wish them to be enveloped by the love and kindness we all have deep inside to share. I feel so bad for kids growing up without a good religious

background no matter what religion they all have one thing in common

the contentment and love good faith can bring. I don’t want to preach or

try to convert anyone but maybe if you all knew what good faith can

do to transform your life maybe life wouldn’t be so stressful and

seem so hopeless at times.  I see more and more drama and hate

in the world today and it seems everyone is only bitching about

what they don’t have when they really need to be grateful for

what they have. If we all turn against each other who can you

count on when you really need someone bickering, drama and bitching

seem to consume so much time in people’s lives. Just think what your

life would be like if you spent more time loving, caring and being

compassionate. There is already enough hate in this world instead

of declaring war against each other why not give others a safe haven 

somewhere/someone to turn to when the world is out of control. I

refuse to join in the war others want so much to wage every day

against others and I would much rather spend my time loving others,

caring for others and protecting others from those hateful people

who don’t know any better. It breaks my heart to see a world so unwelcoming to a new generation when our kids need us most we

should try our best to make their world a better place for

them so they know that even though the world is churning 

out of control home is the one place they can find cover

and the love they need so much, Instead of exposing them to

what the world thinks is ok. Values are taught you are not

born with them. Kids only know what you teach them. 

If a kid only knows hate, hurt and rejection that is what they think is ok

and what they will grow up projecting. If a kid is taught to love, care and

have compassion for others that is what they will project later in life.

I see so many parents treating their kids so badly I feel so bad for

those kids it is like they are being punished for having such ungodly

awful parents. Kids are innocent victims of this world’s hate and your poor upbringing don’t make them suffer please. I hate to be so vocal about this but I see it more and more and I hate it. People in their teens and 20s think they are ready to raise kids I feel most are not but yet they do and it is those kids who suffer. Please wait to have kids it will be 

the best decision you will thank yourself for later. This of course is just

my opinion expressed.